“I Choose You Today” {Book Review}

About The Book
How would your marriage change if you and your husband made the spoken declaration 

“I choose you” every day?
 Even when “for better or worse” is disappointing, we need to remind ourselves that love is a choice. And it’s God’s grace that makes that choice possible.
I Choose You Today offers 31 practical ways you can make love last, by choosing to:
*Pursue your spouse
*Challenge one another
*Listen mindfully
*Love fiercely 
*And twenty-seven other opportunities to choose wisely.
Deb DeArmond offers inspirational stories, conventional wisdom, and thought-provoking questions to help you explore your choices and commitments to each other . . . every day of your marriage
My Thoughts
I must admit when I found myself crying over the Introduction I was a bit worried how many boxes of tissues I would need while reading this book. “I Choose You Today” was a great read. It is applicable to the unmarried, engaged and those who have been married for several year. 
I love how the book was broken into small sections. I know that at times I can struggle to read a book with large chapters but committing to read just a few pages a day felt very easy. It was also nice that the book doesn’t need to be read from start to finish. You can easily pick and choose which sections to read. I found the questions and prayers at the end of the chapter to be very helpful. They gave me something to think about through the day and guided my prayer time. The format of this book is perfect for reading alone, as a couple, small groups and bible studies.

My favorite part of the book was the emphasis on the fact that every day we make a choice. Looking at love as so much more than something we feel.

Feelings are not the foundation for truth; feelings are subject to change.
Gods’s Word is the foundation of truth.
~Deb Dearmond

The book did a great job at relating applying the Gospel to your marriage, keeping Christ at the center. I definitely see myself turning back to it time and time again in the future. 
I Choose You Challenge

Sign up online at www.ichooseyouchallenge.com to receive 10 weekly emails, each teaching one of the choices from Deb’s book along with practical applications. This challenge is broken up into three different sessions, covering all 31 choices from the book.
There will be giveaways and opportunities to win throughout the year. Participants can decide when to join—it’s not required to do all three sessions. do all three sessions.

Meet The Author


Deb DeArmond is a highly sought-after executive coach and speaker. Known as a relationship and conflict resolution expert, Deb is dedicated to helping others build successful solutions to the challenges they face at home and at work. She is the co-founder of MyPurposeNow.org, a website for Christian women 50+. 

Find Deb DeArmond onlinewebsite,FacebookTwitter 


If you’d like to pick up a copy of Deb’s book you can find it on Amazon.

*I was given a complimentary copy of this book from Litfuse Publicity in exchange for my honest opinion. I did not have to write a positive review, all of the opinions expressed are my own.

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  • That sounds like a great book! Marriage is tough, and I know I can always use something like this.

  • What a great book! Every day it's a choice for sure.

  • This speaks so near and dear to my heart right now. We are definitely in the most difficult year of our marriage, thus far. Keeping each other first is difficult when you have to little babes to attend to at all times. I'm definitely going to sign up for these emails. I may sign Sean up to! Thanks for sharing!

    • You are so welcome friend. Marriage is HARD stuff. Especially while the littles are so young. Some days just talking to each other is a huge challenge. Praying for you guys.

  • Such a wonderful book!! I've heard great things about it and just might get myself a copy.